Have you ever heard this expression?
You don’t know what you look like right now.
You can’t see things from my perspective.
Have you ever seen a picture of yourself, a mirror reflection, or a video and been shocked at who was looking back?
Often times we have an image of ourselves which is so far off base, so lost in fantasy, that we don’t even know who we are or what we look like.
We may tell ourselves, I’m looking handsome today. When in fact, we are about a 5/10 on the looks scale.
We may tell ourselves, I’m being reasonable. When in fact, we are being completely unreasonable. We’re communicating on the lowest possible denominator.
What is the solution?
Look at yourself. Film yourself. Have a full length mirror in which you look at yourself naked and clothed. Observe yourself.
Do you want to be proud of yourself?
Communicate effectively with anyone?
Be happy with how you look naked for real?
Stop lying to yourself.
You’re not as good as you are telling yourself.
In order to move forward and be successful you have to be very real with yourself about your flaws.
I know so many guys, that think that They’re Good.
Newsflash, You’re Not Fucking Good.
You’re a fat, slovenly, poor, poor communicator, and until you admit that to yourself you will never change.
Until Next Time,