Most people think that I’m motivated by the drive to succeed. By riches, love, and success… nothing can be further from the truth.
The truth is, anyone who is successful is deeply, deeply wounded. They didn’t just do it for fucking fun. They did it because they had a massive motivator to drive all the the action they took.
When I Take Action… It’s Not Because I Want To. It’s Because I feel I HAVE to.
I encourage people who don’t take enough action to tap into their anger, their sadness, their passion for what they do.
Emotions are the most powerful motivator that we have.
Sure… we could claim that external things motivate us. The classic example is if someone put a gun to your head… you’d be motivated to do anything. If you were apathetic and didn’t care about the way it made us feel then we felt that cold steel barrel pressing into our temple… we’d just get our heads blown off.
Passivity invites abuse… when you are passive in the face of adversity… you DESERVE to get whatever is coming to you.
You MUST have a desire to get up and fight. YOU MUST! Otherwise, there is something genetically wrong with you and you must be weeded out of existence.
I have such an unbelievable disdain for passivity. It makes me sick.
The true motivator is not the gun… but the VISCERAL reaction we have to the threat of death.
Have a visceral reaction to those who shit on you, doubt you, disrespect you, and bitches who reject you.
The more anger, sadness, rage, and disdain you can conjure up when you’re working the better. You will need to get deeply in touch with your anger… this rage will drive you to do things that are beneficial for your life in a massive way.
I read an excellent question in Tim Ferris’ book ‘Tools Of Titans.”
What do you want your life to be like in 10 years from now? What do you want to be doing? Who do you want to be with while you do it? How do you want to feel about yourself? How do you want to dress… look naked? Run down the questions.
Next… The question goes deeper and says, “How would I accomplish the 10 year plan in 6 months?” then goes further and says, “How would I accomplish the 10 year plan in 6 months if someone had a gun to my head?”
Very powerful question indeed.
To me… My 10 year plan is to be clearing 10 million yearly. Have amazing and deeply fulfilling relationships. Have a rotation of beautiful and exotic looking women. (I prefer Latina, brunette white women with fat asses and flat stomaches, black girls with gorgeous faces, shapely waists and asses and big juicy titties.) I also want to live in two places… a beautiful penthouse apartment overlooking central park south or west in a Trump Building. A beautiful house nestled in the Hollywood Hills overlooking the city or an apartment in Malibu overlooking the ocean. Have amazing male friends.
My criteria for male friends is this: share the same values, successful financially and in relationships. They are positive and want the best for me.
The question is… how do we get there in 6 months? What would you do if you had a gun to your head?
You would just FUCKING DO IT. Get a plan… get a mentor… have him tell you EXACTLY how to do it.
Take out a business loan to get it fucking done. Pay the mentor… follow EVERY FUCKING THING HE SAID. Then enjoy the future benefits.
It just so happens I am now teaching guys about business, and personal branding. If you are interested in these things email me at firstname.lastname@example.org