Most guys approach relationships from the weakest and most pathetic frame humanly possible.
They approach relationships as leeches, slugs, disgusting scum. Planning to USE the girl for everything she’s worth and can only hope to toss her away like a piece of garbage.
Everything is about, “Me, Me, Me!” for these guys.
I understand why this happened. This happened because the government has tried to make men replaceable.
Divorce rates are skyrocketing, seems like most families don’t stay together now-a-days.
Cheating is at an all time high, and with the rise of feminism and sexual liberation… women are incentivized to cheat and leave their boyfriend.
I have two quick sage pieces of advice that will make you happier, your girlfriend happier, and the world a little better as a place to live.
- Your girlfriend doesn’t owe you anything. That means sexually, emotionally, or financially.
- You will be far happier leading and providing for your girlfriend an emotionally and financially stable and beautiful relationship.
Guys always say this, “She pissed me off because…
-She doesn’t listen to me
-She has guy friends
-She doesn’t suck my cock enough
Here’s my answer.
She isn’t doing those things because:
- She doesn’t respect you.
- You aren’t providing a healthy, fun, atmosphere.
- You are not sexy or physically attractive. That means your dress, your skin, your teeth, hair, nails, muscles, body fat, penis size, etc.
- You aren’t cool.
- You have no passion/purpose.
- You haven’t embraced the fact that you’re the man.
If you were on your purpose, and truly exceptionally going for it, your woman can’t help but be wildly attracted to you. In a deep way.
If you were in great shape, dressed perfectly, had a big cock that gets hard as fuck, if you fucked her right, if you were cool and social and charismatic, your woman would not be able to contain her femininity.
Sure, there are women that won’t act right no matter who you are and what you do. However, if you have enough abundance first and select your girlfriend from many, you will have a girl who is capable of acting right.
Success in life, is about what you can provide for people to make their lives better.
Relationships are 100% the same concept.
You must find ways to offer tons of value to your girlfriend and provide her with the absolute best experience that you are capable of providing.
Your excuses and defensiveness mean nothing to her or anyone else. Sure, people may buy your excuses temporarily… but you must constantly be improving and evolving. You aren’t the perfect man. Not even close. Not even remotely fucking close. Nobody is. But you’re far from him, and you’re far from the best option for you girlfriend.
Become the best option for your girlfriend.
Scared of losing her?
This mentality ensures that you won’t lose her. Even if you did, you would be so dedicated to your own improvement and purpose in life that other women would be drooling at the mouth to have you.
Once you hit a certain value threshold in your relationships, women will hunt you down and try to be with you.
If you look good enough, are rich enough, are cool enough, have enough cool shit going on in your life you 100% will have women knocking down your door who want to be your girlfriend or at least fuck you.
-Provide the best relationship possible for your girlfriend. Don’t settle for anything sub-par from yourself. Expect excellence.
-She will act right when you do that.
-Don’t make excuses or get defensive. Just fix the problems.
-Other women will want you.
-You will become a highly desired man by men as friends and women as lovers if you follow this advice.