My skills picking up women in New York City have directly connected me to the pinnacle of my business successes.
You see, most people are very awkward. Especially when there is the potential for money to trade hands.
Picking up women, is nerve racking for most men until they get over their ego and simply allow their true self to shine through… I describe this feeling as having a giant stick that is lodged in your ass removed.
You simply must step, speak, and lead. Let nature take its course.
Unfortunately, for most people they are so shrouded in their years of social conditioning, shame, their story, limiting beliefs etc etc… that this will never happen for them.
As you begin to peel back the layers of the onion, you begin to realize that at your core, you are hilarious, charismatic, outgoing, persuasive, influential, sexual, fun, and joyful.
Before all that shit happened to you to dull your shine.
All those times that your teacher told you to sit down, shut up, don’t say anything offensive, and keep your hands to yourself.
Once you learn to step, and get over your fears of showing that part of yourself (the fear is completely understandable especially in 2018… with the epidemic of fake rape cases, #metoo, and women being more over-validated and lost than likely any other time in human history…. It’s not going to end well for them btw…) you will see that you are the only one with the courage to do so.
It has been said that the successful are willing to do what the failures won’t.
Once you realize that you are the only one who has had the courage to do these approaches (even within the PUA community that focuses on this specific area) you realize that you can become elite at anything.
Also, cold approaching strange beautiful women in many cases is far, far more intimidating and daunting a task for the average guy than approaching a businessman.
Here’s the steps I’d recommend you take.
Join a co-working space… Talk to everyone. Have no expectations. Simply talk. Be friendly, smile, ask lots of questions.
In fact that point deserves to be addressed separately.
Instead of talking about yourself, ask questions.
Questions require the individual seek inside himself for answers… When you talk… they can choose to listen or not. When you ask… they must answer either subconsciously, or consciously. Either way your question is being answered and they are reacting to you instead of ignoring you. More on this later.
Go to networking events.
Meet people in person.
Go to rich parts of town… hang out in the lounges there, hotel bars… talk to the rich.
They are just like you and I, they have the same fears and pains.
If you are a beacon of positive good energy they will want to associate and relate with you.
If you have an offering, they will buy it.
That’s the secret.