“Feminine Energy Makes Small Things Big, Masculine Energy Makes Big Things Small.” – David Deida
Take a look around New York City. It’s enormous, intricate, extraordinarily well designed, and highly functional. If you were to have thought about all that it would take, in order to build a place like New York, you would likely have never started.
That is a sign of the masculine at work. Taking huge enormous ideas and making them small. Enough to tackle.
We built this entire world up from nothing. Created complex languages, social hierarchies, bartering systems, so on and so forth. We feel obligated to do these things… to improve conditions. That is the center driving force behind the healthy masculine. Always seeking to improve conditions.
The feminine energy looks at small details, micromanages, looks to fill her life with pleasantries and good things. She inspires the masculine to provide for her, and his offspring.
The reason she focuses on the small details, is because the small details matter. She is reminding you, and prodding you to focus on your purpose. A man who has lost touch with his purpose in life is one who is
-Use her ‘Nagging’ As a ‘pointer’ to things you need to work on. It keeps you on track, in fact… You learn to keep yourself on track. Everything your girl could ever nag you about you should already have thought about and been working on.
-Take out the trash it smells, shave your beard, wear new clothes, be more assertive, get a better job, make more money, I want to go on vacation.
-All these things are legitimate.
-The two things that stop you from implementing these things are 1. your ego 2. you are already fixing them 3. You don’t have enough energy.
-Children and women have strong sensitivities to your shortcomings.
-This is because women and children are simply trying to save your family from mediocrity. If you don’t fix these things then your family is doomed to fail. There is a biological reason for the ‘nagging.’
-Do you think trumps wife ‘nags’ him? FUCK NO. That is because every need, every shortcoming, every bit of evolution that needs to happen within Trump IS happening or HAS happened. He is the ultimate provider. There IS no lack. Therefore no need to nag.
-No Lack = No Nag.
– I know many, many men who are old and have completely unplugged. They’re disengaged. They have stopped evolving, they aren’t on their purpose. They are on autopilot 100% of the time. They need a smack. A breakup, a fight.
-Refer To The Older Blog Posts: “Why your girlfriend stops fucking you,” and “You can’t see yourself.”
-They go deeper on this topic.
-The ego stops the evolution from happening, they stop the transformation. You aren’t going to keep your woman attracted, your kids respecting you, the market paying you, or your own self respect if you let your ego get in the way.
-“I know what I’m doing.” No you don’t. No you fucking don’t. The only reason why you’re saying this is because you’re a big fish in a small pond, you play low-stakes ball. You’re hanging out with losers. You don’t hang out with the big wigs, the winners, the killers, the wolves. You hang out with commoners and rationalize that ‘you’re doing good enough.’
This mentality disgusts me and everyone on the planet to the core. Do you want to know why?
Because you’ve given up. You’re weak. You’re not doing what you were put on this earth to do, and you’re certainly not giving any value to people.
– Get around successful people, who are younger, or the same age as you. Came from worse circumstances than you, or had less opportunity than you. This removes all your victim stories, because if they did it you have no excuses.
– Put the pressure on yourself. Your WOMAN and your CHILDREN shouldn’t be the ones to point out these things to you. YOU should be pointing out these things to you. Do you realize how PATHETIC it is to your woman that she has to be the one to point out how you’re failing? It shows your incompetance as a leader, as a strong man, and as a sexual polarity. You have failed her and your children in every moment of weakness and every moment here they have to point out your failures or ‘Nag’ You.