“Ur Beautiful Babe. Anybody every *stumble* tell you that fuckin’ shit before? *Burp*”
-Rando-Commando In Any Given Bar
Awkwardly clutching at her green dress, the rando-commando at least has the intestinal fortitude to approach.
Yet… He sucks.
Out of her night.
Therefore, she usually will blow him off in most major US cities.
Most men go out to get laid and validated.
Most women go out to have fun get validated and maybe laid.
In That Order.
There’s a major distinction there… Which leads us to the inference that…
If you’re not having fun, happy, horny, lighthearted, masculine, and leading… the girls despise you.
Too much happy, and lighthearted? She will treat you like her friend and hook up with someone else.
Too much horny, and masculine? Psycho. She will run for the hills as she should.
The key is to Relax Into The Ideal Emotional State For Seduction.
Being seductive is a state of being… It isn’t a THING you do. It is an emotional state accompanied with the knowledge and awareness of how to make the seduction occur.
Attunement: Is not just something to be aware of while gaming, or seducing women. It is something to be aware of to be a better parent, communicator, and friend.
Attunement is how you ensure that the girl is CONSENTING TO EVERYTHING YOU DO. YOU ARE MOVING NATURALLY AND COMFORTABLY FOR HER. YOU AREN’T FORCING, MANIPULATING, OR PUSHING HER TO DO ANYTHING SHE DOESN’T WANT TO DO.
Attunement is best described as being tuned into people’s body language, or their subconscious communications. You are aware of what they are feeling, and how to lead them to feel better.
That may mean leaving them alone and moving onto someone who is more interested in you.
That may mean physically escalating.
Regardless you must become a master at attunement. You must feel what she feels, and lead. That’s what she wants.