I have been conditioned over time.
I have learned that when I feel upset, butt-hurt, angry, jealous, obsessive, or sad over a girl. There is usually only one reason.
I am placing undue importance on someone who is not worth my effort and time. Beyond that any time I am over thinking things with one girl. This is effort that could easily replaced by focusing on a newer, hotter, cooler, richer, more fun, more sexually compatible, better matched girl.
In game your instincts will become very attuned and tied to your emotions… you will realize that by thinking too much about one girl you will drive yourself crazy and drive her away.
In the opposite example when you are thinking nothing about her, not caring about her and out fucking other women… she senses that you are less needy than any other guy she’s seeing and will become attracted to you.
“On To The Next One”
Will become your new motto. It’s a way of life. The next one plus inner game and a wonderful life is the key to emotional freedom and insanity that dependence on one individual girl can create.
You don’t want to rely on one girl.
That’s like building your castle on a puddle of mud…
Build your inner game strong, build a rotation of hot girls who all respect and chase you, cut out the poisonous ones, and build your life up to be amazing.
That is the key to non-neediness.
Never go crazy over a girl. That’s their job.